This weekend was filled with holiday excitement. We had the
annual Christmas party on my mom's side on Saturday night, and then all of my
dad's family at our house earlier today. It was wonderful to see so much of my
family; Some I had seen as late as this Thanksgiving, but for others, the last
time we saw each other was last Christmas. Of course the only thing anybody
seemed to ask me was "where are you going to college?". If I had a
dollar for every time I was asked that question, I think I might have enough
money to afford an application fees. At one point I considered just gathering
everyone together, allowing me to only give the college speech just once. Right
now I have no idea where I'm going, in fact, I haven't even submitted all of my
applications yet! I found it even hard to come up with an answer to the question,
" well what's your top choice?". I don't know. I really like a lot of
the places I've applied to and that's why I've applied to them.
But through my many conversations with adults who have gone
through the whole college thing and older cousins currently in college, I came
away with a lot of advice. Everybody I talked to had to add their two cents from their
college experience. Although some of the tips were rather trivial, I did
leave the parties with some really sound advice. The first pointer was
that there are no bad decisions. Every place I could get into is a great
school, and I will most likely be happy at any of them. The other, more
important piece of advice came from my older cousin who is currently a sophomore
at RIT. He told me the most important thing is to pick classes and only do things
that are interesting to you. He said from personal experience that he has taken
some classes just because they were supposed to be easy. Unfortunately, they
turned out to be pretty demanding, and overall, were just not fun. Although I did get pretty tired of talking
about my college plans, it was really great to talk to so many people who went
through the same thing I am going through right now.
I know what you're talking about. Every single time I have talked to relatives for the past two years, they have asked me about college. I have pretty much memorized my speech. You are right that people have a lot of good advice. While it can get exhausting to repeat the same thing 50 times, it is nice that so many people are interested in your future.
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