So this week saw the end to the Patriot’s season. I know for
a fact that I am not the only one around here who’s pissed off. This was
supposed to the year; after everything that happened to the Patriots
organization, and especially Tom Brady, in the past 12 months, the time was absolutely
perfect to show up the NFL and win the fifth ring. This year more than ever it
felt like us against the world, the timing felt right. Unfortunately, that is
not going to happen. I won’t say much about the game itself, but I will say I think
even myself and a few friends could’ve gotten to Tom Brady with the horrific
performance we witnessed from the offensive line. Anyways, like always, the
people on Boston sports radio stations had plenty to talk about this week.
There are always conflicting opinions and a few crazy caller who present some
hilariously ridiculous theories and ideas. But I have never heard a caller
being called out on using defense mechanisms-until this week.
I think it was Tuesday, some random Boston sports fan called
in to add his two cents. While most people let all their anger out on the phone
and scream about how the refs were unfair and that the NFL will never let the
Patriots win again, this man was rather composed. He said that initially he was
incredibly upset over the loss. But now that it’s over, he realizes it’s ok we
lost because the Panthers would have killed us, just like they are going to
destroy the Broncos in two weeks’ time. And without missing a beat, the host on
the show called out his use of the defense mechanism of rationalization. I was
stunned. He specifically said “defense mechanism” and “rationalization”. It was
very unexpected and I was certainly impressed.
Defense mechanisms are used to cope with subconscious trauma
or conflict, and any time the Patriots loose is definitely a traumatic event. Everybody
deals with it in their own way, but in the spirit of good ol’ Bill Belichick,
we’re on to next season!!
